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The Cat named Bubun.

I’m starting to see the appeal of pets. While people debating whether they’re a cat or dog person, I wasn’t even a pet person. I never feel it, the attachment that people have with their pets, until.. Probably couple of weeks ago, there is this one fat cat that came into my house, and my husband -being a kinda cat person himself- fed it with the cat food that he bought for feeding stray cats in the area. And so this cat regularly came. Upon seing how ‘tame’ or domesticated this cat is, I started to feed it myself, and I took a liking to this fat cat, that we later on find out is actually pregnant. I probably need to add that other than being pregnant, this cat also has wound on her tail, hence the name Bubun came up. Buntut Buntung.  As the time goes on, she came twice a day, usually when I’m about to go yo work and when I came home or right before bed I usually check and she’s on my front door. But then just now, when I gave her late night dinner, I noticed her tail is getting worse a

Pikiran 10 Hari Menjelang.

16 Januari 2020. 10 hari menuju pertambahan umur. Ngerasa makin tua prinsip hidup jadi makin sederhana. Atau mungkin ini efek 11 bulan hidup di tengah pandemi.  Akhir-akhir ini jadi sering mikir hidup itu sebenernya buat apa sih. Apa yang dikejar? Semakin nanya itu ke diri sendiri, makin sadar kalo setiap orang hidup di dunia itu punya valuenya masing-masing. Yang akhirnya akan mempengaruhi tujuan dan bagaimana mereka menjalani hidup. Ngga ada yang benar atau salah selama ngga saling menyakiti dan merugikan satu sama lain. Selama ini aku sadar kalo hidup orang yang pas dilihat dari luar kayak enak itu pasti ada strugglenya juga, tapi belakangan setelah ngobrol sama temen sebelah meja kantor, aku jadi makin sadar benernya. Apa yang selama ini aku pikir aku tau, ternyata cuma permukaannya. Memang yang orang tunjukkan hanya yang mereka ingin orang lain lihat. Dan setiap orang yang hidup di dunia ini sudah ada porsinya masing-masing. We all lives in our own shoes. Kalau mau 'iri' s

Sunday are for Meal Prepping, Light Baking, and Everything in Between.

A year after my last post things has been changed quite a lot.  It's now Sunday.  And my Sunday activity are now meal prepping for our lunch for the next week. While I was standing preparing some ingredients, listening to Taylor Swift newest album, I realised I really enjoy cooking in peace like this (and it was also raining so yeah). Dear self, please keep trying to enjoy every little thing that happen in life. Don't be so busy looking for something you don't have until you can't enjoy what's already be given to you. Be grateful. Ajus.

How Far?

How far does it take for you to change instead of waiting the other person doing their part?

Bedtime Story: Acceptance Over Understanding.

17:22 When you’re married, you shouldn’t expect to know your spouse completely. Sure, you should’ve done the ‘investigation’ part. But, along the way you’ll still find something that you don’t know about each other. Something that you didn’t think about before. Something completely new. I’ve been in that kind of situation before, and currently is. It takes time to wrap my head around it. To just accept without trying to understand. Because sometimes, understanding something that clearly different from your own believe is impossible. It is always acceptance over understanding. xx Ajus.

662 Days: A Unique Relationship.

I believe every relationship is unique. As much as I believe that every person, no matter how much similar, will always have -at least- one difference to tell them apart. And relationship are even more unique because it consist of two different person trying their best to make it works. This year I'm on my second year of marriage. In this short amount of time I tried, and still trying, to learn 'how to' navigate a marriage. One thing that I've learned is, again, every relationship is unique. It's different from one another. Not every 'love-quotes' or 'marriage-advice' out there are made for us. One simple thing, I read somewhere, a long time ago, an advice about marriage of how we should not be on our phone on bed everyday. Or something like that. It will make us drifting apart from each other. But in this very second, Me and my husband are currently sitting on our bed Me with laptop on my lap, writing this post (on normal day I'

Ditangkep Satpam

Minggu, 19 Mei 2019 00:48 Suami, yang udah tidur duluan, tiba-tiba nepok-nepok sambil nanya, 👦🏻 Belum tidur? 👩🏻 Iya, belum bisa. Kamu kenapa kebangun? 👦🏻 Mimpi ngga enak 👩🏻 Apa emangnya? 👦🏻 Mimpi kamu ditangkep satpam 👩🏻 Makanya nepok-nepok? 👦🏻 Iya ngecek masih ada (di sebelah) ngga 👦🏻 *kemudian langsung tidur lagi*